Book Suggestions

Boundaries

Does your life feel like it's out of control? Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone's requests. Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others' feelings and problems. Or perhaps you focus so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits and limitations. Or maybe it's all of the above.


In the New York Times bestseller, Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.


Can I set limits and still be a loving person?

What are legitimate boundaries?

How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn't control me?

What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?

How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?

Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?

How do boundaries relate to mutual submission within marriage?

Aren’t boundaries selfish?

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is considered the ‘gold standard’ of psychotherapy… and one of the reasons for this is that it gives you the skills and tools you need to address your problems as they arise in everyday life… no matter where they stem from.


Whether you struggle with depression, anxiety, or intrusive thoughts, CBT can help you regain control – and it can be used to treat a wide range of other issues too.


Cheryl Cole, John Green, and Ellie Goulding have all spoken about their experiences with CBT… and they all make a compelling case.


The problem is, if you’re not sure whether CBT is the right route for you, the idea of committing to therapy appointments can be off-putting… and very expensive.


But the beauty of CBT is that once you understand its key principles, you don’t need a therapist to reap its benefits.


CBT is a truly accessible tool that anyone can use… as long as you understand its principles and how to apply them effectively.


And for that, you don’t need a lot of medical jargon or psychobabble… You need clear, relatable language that gets right to the core of the subject.


And that’s just what you’ll find in this comprehensive guide. Inside, you’ll discover:


Exactly what CBT is and why it’s effective – get under the hood so you can clearly see how it can help you

How to get past the symptoms to the root cause of your problem (unlock this secret, and you unlock the true power of CBT)

Targeted CBT strategies for depression, social anxiety, and generalized anxiety disorder

The true impact of low self-esteem… and how you can use CBT strategies to improve yours

How to get to the core of your true values (and why it matters that you do)

The secret to harnessing the power of CBT to make better decisions in all areas of life

The surprising trick you can learn from Sherlock Holmes to get to any emotional truth

How your thoughts can impact your sleep… and how to whip them into shape for a peaceful night’s rest

Everything you need to know about using CBT to tame your anger (no matter how all-consuming it can be)

A concrete plan for avoiding relapses and making sure everything you’ve learned is at your fingertips in any situation

And much more.

Codependent No More

It's human nature to want to belong. Whether that means being in a romantic relationship, having friends, or being accepted by your family – that need has to be realized.


But what happens when that need starts to limit you?


Suddenly you find yourself in relationships that are fractured and twisted. Instead of the love, empathy, and security that healthy dynamics provide, you become consumed with anxiety and denial.


Behaviors that you would call unacceptable in other relationships are explained away and you begin to compromise your own wellbeing and peace of mind.


You've found yourself in a codependent relationship.


It can be difficult to break free of this dynamic because you've come to believe you are incomplete without it. You might even believe you need this relationship just to survive.


The truth is, you are enough even on your own.


Learning to recognize that fact is a process, and Andrei Nedelcu is here to guide you through it with empathy and compassion.


No two people's experiences are exactly alike, and he acknowledges the unique challenges you're facing, providing thoughtful and engaging advice.


In Codependent No More, here is just a fraction of what you will discover:


Practical exercises to help you assess your relationships and take steps to transform your life

The 7 red flags that indicate you've fallen into a codependent relationship

Answers to the most frequently asked questions people have about their dynamics with others

How to help someone who is codependent without making them defensive or ruining your relationship

What not to do when you find yourself free from a codependent relationship

Resources and tools to encourage your emotional development and build a support system

What attachment styles are and how they are affecting your relationship without you even realizing it

The secret to setting healthy boundaries and why they're so important for reclaiming your time and energy

How to develop effective communication strategies and solve codependency conflicts

And much more.

Battlefield of the Mind

If you suffer from worry, doubt, confusion, depression, anger or condemnation, you are experiencing an attack in your mind. Overcoming negative thoughts that come against your mind brings freedom and peace. Find out how to recognize damaging thought patterns and stop them from influencing your life. Don't surrender to misery another day. Find out today what you can do to ensure your victory in the Battlefield of the Mind!

Understanding Verbal and Emotional Abuse

You didn't think anyone could hurt you like this. But now that you're in or have experienced an abusive relationship, how can things be restored? Designed to help you effectively overcome the trauma and pain of mistreatment, the 6-week Verbal and Emotional Abuse Bible study (6th in the series) will show you how to heal from past abuse, set up proper boundaries, and know the warning signs of abusive behavior.

More Than Enough

We all long for peace, security, and fulfillment. Denying that we have those needs is pointless. Trying to meet them in unhealthy ways is counterproductive. And languishing in frustration when those needs are not met is unnecessary, because God has a better plan. Jesus came to tell us about Himself. We can find our satisfaction in a relationship with Him, the Person, Jesus Christ. Through Jesus we can find peace, security, and fulfillment—everything we need. He is the great "I Am."


In this six-session study, group members will delve into the Gospel of John and learn that Christ is truly more than enough.


Session titles and Scriptures: 


Our Need for Contentment (John 6:26-27,35-40)

Our Need for Direction (John 8:12-19)

Our Need for Protection (John 10:7-15, 27-30)

Our Need for Hope (John 11:17-24)

Our Need for Peace (John 14:1-7)

Our Need for Purpose (John 15:1-8)

Safe People

Why do we choose the wrong people to get involved with? Is it possible to change? And if so, where does one begin?


In manageable yet soul-searching steps that promote progress and inspire confidence, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend walk you through how make safe choices in relationships, from family to friendship, romance, and work. Their expert guidance will help you:


Correct things within you that jeopardize your relational security

Learn the 20 traits of untrustworthy people

Recognize what makes people relationally safe

Avoid unhealthy relationships

Form positive relationships

Become a safe person yourself

It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

Life often looks so very different than we hoped or expected. Some events may simply catch us off guard for a moment, but others shatter us completely. We feel disappointed and disillusioned, and we quietly start to wonder about the reality of God’s goodness.


Lysa TerKeurst understands this deeply. But she's also discovered that our disappointments can be the divine appointments our souls need to radically encounter God. In It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, Lysa invites us into her own journey of faith and, with grit, vulnerability, and honest humor, helps us to:


Stop being pulled into the anxiety of disappointment by discovering how to better process unmet expectations and other painful situations.

Train ourselves to recognize the three strategies of the enemy so we can stand strong and persevere through unsettling relationships and uncertain outcomes.

Discover the secret of being steadfast and not panicking when God actually does give us more than we can handle.

Shift our suspicion that God is cruel or unfair to the biblical assurance that God is protecting and preparing us.

Know how to encourage a friend and help her navigate hard realities with real help from God's truth.

The Path to Sexual Healing

This book is for those who have been sexually abused. Learnoing who God is and how you can trust Him will heal the wounds of your heart.

Uninvited

In Uninvited, Lysa shares her own deeply personal experiences of rejection from the perceived judgment of the perfectly toned woman one elliptical over to the incredibly painful childhood abandonment by her father. She leans in to honestly examine the roots of rejection, as well as rejection's ability to poison relationships from the inside out, including our relationship with God. With biblical depth, gut honest vulnerability, and refreshing wit, Lysa will help you:


Stop feeling left out by believing that even when you are overlooked by others you are handpicked by God.

Change your tendency to either fall apart or control the actions of others by embracing God-honoring ways to process your hurt.

Know exactly what to pray for the next ten days to steady your soul and restore your confidence in the midst of rejection.

Overcome the two core fears that feed your insecurities by understanding the secret of belonging.

Uninvited reminds us we are destined for a love that can never be diminished, tarnished, shaken, or taken—a love that does not reject or uninvite.

Forgiving What You Can't Forget

Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing offenses over and over in your mind? You know you can't go on like this, but you don't know what to do next. Lysa TerKeurst has wrestled through this journey. But in surprising ways, she’s discovered how to let go of bound-up resentment and overcome the resistance to forgiving people who aren’t willing to make things right.


With deep empathy, therapeutic insight Lysa will help you:


Learn how to move on when the other person refuses to change and never says they're sorry.

Walk through a step-by-step process to free yourself from the hurt of your past and feel less offended today.

Discover what the Bible really says about forgiveness and the peace that comes from living it out right now.

Identify what's stealing trust and vulnerability from your relationships so you can believe there is still good ahead.

Disempower the triggers hijacking your emotions by embracing the two necessary parts of forgiveness.

Forgiven and Set Free

This study was developed out of Linda Cochrane's own experience of being freed from the bondage of guilt and grief that followed her abortion. Forgiven and Set Free guides suffering and hurting women to bring their emotional scars from abortion "out of the dark past and into his holy light," where true and lasting healing can take place. Appropriate Scriptures help women deal with issues such as relief, denial, anger, forgiveness, depression, letting go, and acceptance.

Email me at womensconnection@yahoo.com to let me know which book you would like to do in the online book study. You can also send me a request of a book not mentioned here.

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